Do any of them involve having money? Not trying to be too harsh, but have seen it in real life and it was upsetting to watch. That seems a lot to invest in an escape. Watching savings grow can also be addictive as well as provide a sense of accomplishment. Escape into your future, into goals. So what if it takes years. Save for your own place. Window shop online and imagine all the ways it could be done. Or whatever those goals might be, obsess about them, make it something real.