Just got an email from my mother that my uncle's wife (who I never met) just died. This is a quick bitch because I want nothing to do with my biological father and I suspect that useless fuck will be there. Because I respect my mother I will think about this for a while before deciding how to handle it. Meaning how to politely let her know that I will not be attending. The funeral will likely be in Santa Rosa ~ 43 miles away.