That is BLATANTLY about your being on the spectrum (do they know?) or AD/H?/D. If so, then I'm pretty confident that you've got a case there for discrimination. The NTs class autism as a disability, and you'd be covered there for sure.
You should challenge that in court Ren. Hell, you might even get compensation out of it. Even the threat of being taken to task for it might be enough, although of course then you won't get compensation out of it, you could likely force them to give you the scholarship, though. Might get both if you actually take it to court.
Don't take that lying down honey, fuck no don't take that shit! you've the right to prove yourself worthy or otherwise, by virtue of your own effort and ability, not to have opportunities withheld from you because some uppity NT decided that you 'obviously would be unable to do it on your own, what else would you expect from an autistic', kind of crap. Don't fucking take that!
That really fucks me off Ren, seriously. Do NOT let them treat you like that! you don't deserve it, and you are fucking worth it. You've the right not to be viewed with lowered expectations. I'm betting aus has equality laws? because that isn't even treating you as just an equal, never mind as you deserve to be treated.
I am SO fucked off at them now.
And as for me....someone I really, really did not need busted, got busted, or almost, didn't get caught with any of what the pigs accused him of having on him, which would of course be ditched if they had had it., luckily. But fuck....now I'm gonna be in a bind, although something at least part of a remedy can be furnished by the one in question. but still gonna have to make up £165 to me.