How strange to see that all my negative ponderings are being confirmed by other people, as very likely, or clearly to be facts.
Somehow that makes life a bit safer.
Doesn't take the strangeness away. Usually I am not the type to think bad things are being done on purpose, to benefit hidden agendas. Here I got the agendas spelled out for me, without even telling my own thoughts about it. Perfect match.
Daughter is relieved too. Her position has become a lot stronger. No solution in sight yet. But, no one, no matter what, can force her now to accept the worst possible option. We had ruled it out the two of us already, but, pressure from outside was strong. All gone now. It really helps to not accept.
Nothing wrong with the gut feeling of these two aspies.
