why do I like this guy so much
If he's good looking with a nice personality, that's being combined by the fact it's common for people to become aroused during exercise.
and how do I stop liking him so much
Maybe try masturbating before you go. That's a serious comment, but for the sake of inanity, feel free to PM me a photo of that.
You are a very bad gopher I don't get aroused so much as I just find him very attractive and something about him makes me feel comforted when he is around
And eh, I haven't done the M word in months and months. I just...don't have the inclination, hence why you wont find me posting in the sex forums
It's kinda hard when it's your PT you like tho, lol. I suppose, at least it motivates me to spend more time at the gym
Why is it so bad that you like him anyway? Is he taken or something?
He was not a few years ago, when I used to train with him, but now, I do not know as he appears to have 2 kids now, rather than the 1 he had back then.
Also, well, because I have liked him for years now, since he first stepped into my gym, but am totally unable to say anything as well, I cannot imagine he would even conceive of being interested in someone like myself... he knows I have Asperger's and now knows what Autism is as he works with kids with Autism now(didn't even know what it was originally, but now he teaches kids with it). So it's bad because there are strong feelings for him, but I cannot do anything about it really. Not being at the gym for a year didn't take it away either, as I started having bloody dreams about the man, even though I wasn't even consciously thinking about him
I have not been in a relationship now in like, 4 years +. I do not really even *Do* relationships well. I struggle to express myself emotionally, and struggle with intimacy, So yeah... much as I am at a point in my life where I would like a companion, I doubt anyone would have the patience.