Maybe you were casting around for blame and were not sure who you wanted to attach blame to? Maybe the fact that you would cast around for blame rather than be clear about who and what you saw as a fault, is more of an issue to look at. Questioning yourself as to why that may be?
Elaborate.
OK if you want me to, sure.
I think that you are not really reasoning out any half-formed notions and yet are prepared to go all out in trying to make a claim.
It flawed from the get go. You do not actually have an idea of what is the problem, who or what is responsible and why. You do the equivalent of a rant/vent/purge without any real sustance other than a concept of all not being well for you.
I get the impression that you have spoken to someone with their own clear ideas of something being wrong, and seduced by the sentiment rather than understanding their ideoogy, you have jumped in both feet and when called did not have anything but a sentiment to attach meaning to.
