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Re: Where are they
« Reply #1755 on: October 08, 2022, 02:00:14 PM »
Hi.
I can do upside down chocolate moo things!

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Re: Where are they
« Reply #1756 on: October 08, 2022, 02:03:05 PM »
Hi! :)
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Re: Where are they
« Reply #1757 on: October 08, 2022, 02:12:49 PM »
OMG ANDERSOM IS BACK!! :GA:

What's that in your new avatar?  :orly:
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Re: Where are they
« Reply #1758 on: October 08, 2022, 02:13:30 PM »
Hi andersom. :)
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Re: Where are they
« Reply #1759 on: October 08, 2022, 04:58:53 PM »
OMG ANDERSOM IS BACK!! :GA:

What's that in your new avatar?  :orly:
Ooh, changed it already again.
It was a "read instructions before assembling" drawing of one of my cats.

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I can do upside down chocolate moo things!

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Re: Where are they
« Reply #1760 on: October 08, 2022, 06:11:04 PM »
I like them both.  :2thumbsup:
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Re: Where are they
« Reply #1761 on: October 11, 2022, 12:57:03 PM »
Welcome back!!!
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Re: Where are they
« Reply #1762 on: October 27, 2022, 04:50:13 PM »
I miss Pyraxis and My Majesty. :emosad:
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Re: Where are they
« Reply #1763 on: October 27, 2022, 07:35:29 PM »
Pyraxis was here on Monday.  I believe she has her hands full with the Cub and her grief over Wolfie.  As for people who tell her to "get over it",  they are full of shit and they have my contempt.  I said the same to her on PM and she knew what I was saying.
Grief takes its own time.   :'(
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Re: Where are they
« Reply #1764 on: October 29, 2022, 03:29:44 PM »
You're pretty much alone in managing loss because everyone is different. It's not something you can prepare for. :'(
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Re: Where are they
« Reply #1765 on: October 29, 2022, 09:14:17 PM »
You're pretty much alone in managing loss because everyone is different. It's not something you can prepare for. :'(

Agreed!
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Re: Where are they
« Reply #1766 on: November 05, 2022, 05:17:23 PM »
^This is not to say that you cannot get help or at the very least, sympathetic voices. It's just that no one can define your loss for you, no one can set a timeline for it, and no one can tell you how long it all takes.

I wish I wasn't right, tbh.
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« Reply #1767 on: November 05, 2022, 09:06:48 PM »
^This is not to say that you cannot get help or at the very least, sympathetic voices. It's just that no one can define your loss for you, no one can set a timeline for it, and no one can tell you how long it all takes.

I wish I wasn't right, tbh.

Again, I heartily agree.  The best way to handle someone's grief/loss is acceptance and support. 
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Re: Where are they
« Reply #1768 on: November 27, 2022, 03:03:46 PM »
I'm back again, in case anyone noticed I was away.
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Re: Where are they
« Reply #1769 on: November 27, 2022, 03:52:07 PM »
I'm back again, in case anyone noticed I was away.

I noticed, you've been quiet.  But, I take it as your normal having a life outside of this place.
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