This all seems like topping from the bottom.
Here is a strange analogy. With subs, they like to be degraded, yelled at etc. They might do something just so you yell at them or kick them in the balls. But then aren't they getting what they want ? Manipulation to get what they want. Not everyone wants to cum, some people like to bleed.
Penty likes to bleed. I think he likes to be kicked in the balls, and you all are just lining up to do it.