I don't quite meant that. I just mean that she shouldn't of married her because she is trans. I'm pretty sure it was a mutual enough relationship, but of course transitioning is going to hurt people. Putting on a facade for others and then finally shattering what people thought about you is obviously hard on others. It's like finding out that you were lied to by your spouse. If they meant to be together, Kayleigh should of started transitioning first.
I wasn't fully aware of being trans at the point, I knew I had gender issues, which I thought I dealt with when I saw a psychiatrist who told me it was just learned behaviour and I should stop reinforcing it by doing whatever I was doing. So I buried it, ignored, just as I had done the years prior to seeing the psych.
Had I been aware of being transgender, and hadn't transitioned by that point (for whatever reason) I definitely would've advised renaeden to perhaps reconsider a relationship with me, let alone marriage.
What happened with our relationship is entirely my own fault. I freely admit and accept that.
Looks to me like you're saying it with such hollowness and no consideration for what renaeden has been going through because of you. You freely admit and accept it's entirely your fault, fine. But you do realize exactly what you've done to her, right?
