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Past history is an excuse why it'd be hard to change the habit of using different pronouns, but not an excuse to neglect them. I can understand you being bitter and disliking Kayleigh, but disrespect is disrespect, justified or not. Kayleigh's mistake was leading her on and marrying her. But you can't change the past. Justifying botty-burp on transsexualism upsetting a friend is about as much sense as being racist because a black man stole your wallet. It's not hard to treat a transgirl you hate the same as a cisgirl you hate.
Rissy, I really hope that you realise that what you said here was insensitive to say the least. You have stressed that you are tired and i do hope that is the reason.
Other than that you have made a lot of sense today. You
stormed the place, and i think your entrance was cool.
above statement not so cool.
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Kayleigh's mistake was leading her on and marrying her." - you say that so matter of fact, like it's OK to do that to someone.
An expendable commodity. You then equate it to "
upsetting a friend" - wtf? now that is an outrageous understatement!
They got married. FFS. Big deal - it is to some! You have just trivialised what should have been the most important and happy
event in her life! I cannot begin to imagine how she must feel.
Also i feel i should point out to you that Renaeden is an active member here. Kayleigh is not. You said yourself about 'getting out what you put in'
- well in the three months i been here Kayleigh has only bothered to post here to have a go at someone. I imagine someone email's her if there is
any threads of this nature. Anyway she appears, she misread everything and just has a tantrum. That is her contribution.
So, going back to 'getting out what you put in' ....do you see?
You appear to trivialise Renaeden and her 'upset' in order to highlight the plight of
poor Kayleigh. Try a different approach.