My apologies for the delay. My band does play the bar venues on Friday and Saturday evenings. And I also have a business that I run daily. On days when I see 20 - 30 clients I have very little time to post anywhere.
Thank you to PPK for starting this thread
And thanks to Callaway for her definition of "fuck you and the horse you rode in on"
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@ butterflies
You need to examine both your consience and posts to see whether or not what you say is a bully remark or not. Keep in mind that what you may not consider to be bullying, to others, in particular Aspies and Autists, may be exactly that.
From your posts just on this thread I believe all can see you were in full attack mode in your postings to me on CBC`s thread.
You were harboring a grudge from an opinion that I posted to one of your statements. You did it because you say my answer interfered with your right to state your opinion. In actuality you were trying to deny me the right to mine.
In these argument things I tend to return tit for tat. And as you see I can guickly turn nasty and come straight to the point I am attempting to make.( the only forum I know of that I can actually do this on )
This is by the way not an online persona that I am trying to effect, but is the way I am in real life also. I am an extremely laid back person until you come at me. Then I will jump you with both feet. It serves me well in real life, and on this forum anyway, it serves the same purpose.
Dont jump me and I wont jump you. Do that to someone else.
Speaking of PPK`s and CBC`s thread. I have removed all of my posts pertaining to our argument. That only leaves your postings, which of course, includes all the quotes. If you would remove your posts also that will return their thread to the happy good time thread it was meant to be. You can show, in that way, the nice person that you purport to be when you arent pissed off.
You spoke of the word "butthurt" several times. I believe that your actions show, that it was you that was suffering the butthurt and not myself. I mean carrying a grudge for over six weeks.
As to this thread. If you wish to carry on with this, try to limit your anger to this thread alone and not let it spill over to the rest of the forum.
The reason being, I have a very full plate of things that I do on a daily basis, and I have no intention of changing my patterns. I check in here a couple of times a week to see how a couple of people I know here are doing. If you will post your madness here and post anything worthwhile I will answer as soon as I can.
Other than that I dont know what to say. You are just not important enough for me to change my habits. Silly girl!
I have made over 3300 posts on this site. I have no intention of examining them for evidence of bullying. You made the allegation, if you want to prove your point then you will have to show me people on this site who I bully. I am often involved in arguments. I am always happy to defend myself, and will happilly attack anyone who attacks me. That is not bullying. I am usually pretty aware of my own behaviour. For instance, I know that my behaviour towards Parakeet on WP was bullying. I went way over the top with him, and I kinda regret it.
At least I have the courage to confront people who are "bigger" than me. You attack little girls who are one third of your age for simply having a different opinion to you. That IS bullying.
Yes, I would agree that I was in attack mode with you. I have self-respect. If somebody speaks to me in the way you spoke to me, I will attack them. Not only that, but I am likely to continue attacking them at every convenient opportunity.
You were harboring a grudge from an opinion that I posted to one of your statements. You did it because you say my answer interfered with your right to state your opinion. In actuality you were trying to deny me the right to mine.
The above statement is pure and simple bullshit. I have no grudge at all over the fact that we disagreed over our opinions. I also disagreed with Semicolon and Parts. I do not hold any grudge at all towards them. I like, and respect them both.
Although I did not agree with your opinion, I had no problem with it, or with you expressing it at all. It was not even an issue for me. I honestly have no strong opinions on that matter at all.
I rightly took exception to you telling me "Fuck you and the horse you rode in on." How on earth was I trying to stop you expressing your opinion?
This is by the way not an online persona that I am trying to effect, but is the way I am in real life also. I am an extremely laid back person until you come at me. Then I will jump you with both feet. It serves me well in real life, and on this forum anyway, it serves the same purpose.
Dont jump me and I wont jump you. Do that to someone else.
In what way did I come at you to provoke you to say "Fuck you and the horse you rode in on." I disagreed with American foreign policy from 65 years ago. In what way were you justiified in telling a girl 40 years younger than you to "Fuck you and the horse you rode in on?"
You spoke of the word "butthurt" several times. I believe that your actions show, that it was you that was suffering the butthurt and not myself. I mean carrying a grudge for over six weeks.
I enjoy a good argument with somebody I see to be a worthless jerk. If that is butthurt, then
If Cbc chooses to ask me to move my posts in her ask away thread then I will. It is none of your business.
You have strangely accused me of sending you a PM on AFF. I am a bit baffled by that accusation. Could you please publish this PM, or admit that this was a figment of your over-active imagination. I'm guessing it was just paranoia on your behalf. I gather that you spend a lot of time on AFF worrying about Chair. I'm guessing that is also paranoia on your behalf. I understand that paranoia is a common problem with 'nam vets. I'm not surprised though. I suppose spending a year of getting your ass spanked by the Viet Cong would send anybody insane, if not from the fighting, then at least from the humiliation of your defeat. At least you managed to get a cowards pass home early though. I'm guessing you must walk past other vets with their legs blown off, and think to yourself, "that could have been me, if I'd had the balls to man up and stay the distance, rather than using a sick note to get home to mummy early."
I think you're just a big pathetic war coward who makes up for his inadequacy by trying and failing to play big man against little girls on the internet.
