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why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« on: March 17, 2011, 11:59:17 AM »
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"WELL THEN MOVE TO NORTH KOREA YOU FUCKING RAPIST ASSHOLE!!!!!!"

why are people so all or nothing about everything?

i like a lot of western society policies, but i dislike a lot of it too. why do people get SO worked up about it?

and whats with the "get up and do something about it" argument?
do people SUPPORT the darfur genocide? i dont see anybody running to sudan to pose as human shields against the gvt forces there, but they demand that i do it, or shut up about sudan :S

is that what we're supposed to do? either LOVE a situation, or sacrifice our lives to "do something" about it?

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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #1 on: March 17, 2011, 12:02:44 PM »
Yes.
"I’m fearless in my heart.
They will always see that in my eyes.
I am the passion; I am the warfare.
I will never stop...
always constant, accurate, and intense."

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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #2 on: March 17, 2011, 12:03:20 PM »
Yes.

you bastard, you LOVE the sudanese janjaweed :(:(:(

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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #3 on: March 17, 2011, 12:11:26 PM »
Why don't we have an "irony" smiley?
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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #4 on: March 17, 2011, 12:14:56 PM »
my point is, this attitude makes most people:

pro qadaffi
pro sudanese genocide
pro dwindling tigers and rhinos
pro japanese nuclear meltdown
pro georgian massacres (not the US state...)
pro kazakhstani excessive execution methods
pro slaughter of amazonian natives
pro mines disguised as toys
pro sri-lankan war
pro somali lack of government AND pro somali pirates AND pro toxic waste dumping in somalia

nobody's leaving their day job to "DO" anything about any of that.

ergo, they support it, with all of their heart, no, they celebrate it! thats the logic.

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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #5 on: March 17, 2011, 12:16:46 PM »
Why don't we have an "irony" smiley?

i hope the "irony" in question isnt that i am complaining in this thread.
as you may notice: i am not complaining about complaining, i am complaining about the lack of peoples ability accept a complain.

ergo, the irony is on you :b  ::)

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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #6 on: March 17, 2011, 12:21:04 PM »
Zegh, because all some people do is complain. Words without action changes nothing.
"I’m fearless in my heart.
They will always see that in my eyes.
I am the passion; I am the warfare.
I will never stop...
always constant, accurate, and intense."

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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #7 on: March 17, 2011, 12:22:10 PM »
Zegh, because all some people do is complain. Words without action changes nothing.

so thats it.
i am supposed to surrender, and never again speak of the sudanese genocide?
because people have gotten pissed off at me even for that :b

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heres what i suspect. for most people its about fear of change. if we all just aggree that everything is what it is supposed to be, we dont have to risk change. if everyone aggrees that the sudanese genocide (for example) needs to be stopped, it means that we should organize a military intervention to sudan. idunno why this hasnt been done long ago, and for the 1000th time, no, _I_ cant go to sudan all by my lonesome, and start shooting at gvt soldiers there, i dont even own a gun, and much less airplane ticketmoney.............

i just dont see why people get so worked up about it, especially their demand that _I_ stop world atrocities, while THEY are allowed to disagree with it - in silence i guess. im just confused by it all.
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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #8 on: March 17, 2011, 02:04:42 PM »
Shut the fuck up or go to North Korea with the rest of those whinny pinkos :zoinks:

People have complainers unless of course they are one of them then everyone should listen as their issue is the most important
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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #9 on: March 17, 2011, 03:05:34 PM »
Im sure lots of people have opinions and would like to act about things they don't agree with.  unless something is right under your nose or directly affecting you its easier to just complain!  Sudan is just rather a long long way away...
blah blah blah

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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #10 on: March 17, 2011, 03:12:10 PM »
Im sure lots of people have opinions and would like to act about things they don't agree with.  unless something is right under your nose or directly affecting you its easier to just complain!  Sudan is just rather a long long way away...

i know. it makes perfect sense.

see, my angle is SO out-of-the-ordinary, i get misunderstood for a 2nd time now :D
im not asking why people complain, im asking why its so unacceptable TO complain :D

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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #11 on: March 17, 2011, 03:13:28 PM »
isn't it unacceptable NOT to complain??
blah blah blah

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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #12 on: March 17, 2011, 03:18:28 PM »
isn't it unacceptable NOT to complain??

In Sweden people ask you to move if you complain. Most Swedes seem to think that nothing is wrong with Sweden.  :facepalm2:

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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #13 on: March 17, 2011, 03:21:38 PM »
Very good question, ZEGH. Whenever I make even the slightest complaint on here about anything, I get called a crybaby, a Appalachia-toothed retard, a pig fucker, an emo, etc.

I've swung around my fair share of hate, but this bullshit has to end sometime... :wanker:

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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #14 on: March 17, 2011, 04:14:42 PM »
When people complain, it's most times just to be heard. Though the listener will often misunderstand as seeking of advice or solution, which can cause frustraiton for the listener who might not know what to advise, or for the speaker who might not really want to be told what to do. Don't really like to hear people complain as never know what to tell them, so just say nothing and that seems to do fine.