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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #15 on: March 17, 2011, 04:21:43 PM »
my point is, this attitude makes most people:

pro qadaffi
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pro sudanese genocide
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pro dwindling tigers and rhinos
pro japanese nuclear meltdown
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pro georgian massacres (not the US state...)
pro kazakhstani excessive execution methods
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pro slaughter of amazonian natives
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pro mines disguised as toys
pro sri-lankan war
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pro somali lack of government AND pro somali pirates AND pro toxic waste dumping in somalia

nobody's leaving their day job to "DO" anything about any of that.

ergo, they support it, with all of their heart, no, they celebrate it! thats the logic.

everything i am outlined and put in bold i support for one simple fact, humans over populate this planet and we need some god damn population control! everyone bitches about starving and dieing kids in africa... well if there were not so many dumb asses having unprotected sex there would not be so many dieing kids if you can not support a child then dont fucking have one... get someone to beat you in the gut with a baseball bat for all i care... but just let them wallow in there own fucked up situation

im not going to ask people to kill other people because i could not care less. i dont support blindly murdering people on an ethical level but i do realize that it is likely a good thing for the planet and in turn us as a whole. im not going to go out there and kill someone for just the reason that they are "over populating the planet" because i am contributing to the problem with my very existence. it would be hypocritical of me.

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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #16 on: March 17, 2011, 04:44:19 PM »
There's plenty of food to feed Africa. The US pays farmers to not plant in order to control prices. The farmers could still get the same money, with the condition of farming the subsidized land or even a portion of it to be donated to the third world. Don't know if there's subdizing anywhere else, but the rest of the world is stingy too because there's still people starving in the world.
« Last Edit: March 17, 2011, 04:47:49 PM by Jack »

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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #17 on: March 17, 2011, 04:52:37 PM »
Very good question, ZEGH. Whenever I make even the slightest complaint on here about anything, I get called a crybaby, a Appalachia-toothed retard, a pig fucker, an emo, etc.

I've swung around my fair share of hate, but this bullshit has to end sometime... :wanker:
I don't recall ever calling you a retard or an emo.  ??? OTOH I gave you the Appalachia Toothed moniker and I have called you a pig fucker and a crybaby. What distinguishes your pig fucking, Appalachia toothed, retarded, emo crybaby complaint from those outlined by Zeg is that you can elect to stop being such an anti social fucktard at any time but choose to continue. Regarding what Zeg is discussing, it really is not feasible for him to do much more than note that a shit situation is going on in Darfur since he does not have the resources to deal with it, and it does suck that the UN is too corrupt to apply the dreaded G word to the situation.

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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #18 on: March 17, 2011, 04:53:33 PM »
my point is, this attitude makes most people:

pro qadaffi
===================================
pro sudanese genocide
===================================

pro dwindling tigers and rhinos
pro japanese nuclear meltdown
===================================
pro georgian massacres (not the US state...)
pro kazakhstani excessive execution methods
===================================

pro slaughter of amazonian natives
===================================
pro mines disguised as toys
pro sri-lankan war
===================================

pro somali lack of government AND pro somali pirates AND pro toxic waste dumping in somalia

nobody's leaving their day job to "DO" anything about any of that.

ergo, they support it, with all of their heart, no, they celebrate it! thats the logic.

everything i am outlined and put in bold i support for one simple fact, humans over populate this planet and we need some god damn population control! everyone bitches about starving and dieing kids in africa... well if there were not so many dumb asses having unprotected sex there would not be so many dieing kids if you can not support a child then dont fucking have one... get someone to beat you in the gut with a baseball bat for all i care... but just let them wallow in there own fucked up situation

im not going to ask people to kill other people because i could not care less. i dont support blindly murdering people on an ethical level but i do realize that it is likely a good thing for the planet and in turn us as a whole. im not going to go out there and kill someone for just the reason that they are "over populating the planet" because i am contributing to the problem with my very existence. it would be hypocritical of me.

I agree with you on that. But instead of just "blindly" murdering people, we could just cherry-pick those with socially degrading behaviors, like antisocial, narcissism, greediness, extremely violent/homicidal tendencies, anger problems, thievery, corruption, manipulation, etc. This world needs a damn good fixing and the perfect tool for that would be a lot of well placed bullets.

Peace on Earth... :M

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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #19 on: March 17, 2011, 04:55:38 PM »
You keep setting yourself up for it.

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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #20 on: March 17, 2011, 05:00:52 PM »
I agree with you on that. But instead of just "blindly" murdering people, we could just cherry-pick those with socially degrading behaviors, like antisocial, narcissism, greediness, extremely violent/homicidal tendencies, anger problems, thievery, corruption, manipulation, etc. This world needs a damn good fixing and the perfect tool for that would be a lot of well placed bullets.

Peace on Earth... :M
You qualify on two behaviors listed off the bat Appalachia boi.

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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #21 on: March 17, 2011, 05:03:20 PM »
kill all kiddy fiddlers   -  might provide some relief to the situation.

oh and possibly men who try and grope you getting on the train

well - there - planet fixed :zombiefuck:
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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #22 on: March 17, 2011, 05:33:44 PM »
When people complain, it's most times just to be heard. Though the listener will often misunderstand as seeking of advice or solution, which can cause frustraiton for the listener who might not know what to advise, or for the speaker who might not really want to be told what to do. Don't really like to hear people complain as never know what to tell them, so just say nothing and that seems to do fine.

best reply so far.

also, bodaccea, best example so far. im gonna fling it back at the next ones, who tell me to "get off my ass and do something about" whatever i find to be unfair in the world :D
"so i take it you must be pro-pedophilia, since you arent out there right now beating the shit of every single one of them systematically. at least trying everything within your power to hunt them down!"

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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #23 on: March 17, 2011, 05:40:16 PM »
Very good question, ZEGH. Whenever I make even the slightest complaint on here about anything, I get called a crybaby, a Appalachia-toothed retard, a pig fucker, an emo, etc.

I've swung around my fair share of hate, but this bullshit has to end sometime... :wanker:
I don't recall ever calling you a retard or an emo.  ??? OTOH I gave you the Appalachia Toothed moniker and I have called you a pig fucker and a crybaby. What distinguishes your pig fucking, Appalachia toothed, retarded, emo crybaby complaint from those outlined by Zeg is that you can elect to stop being such an anti social fucktard at any time but choose to continue. Regarding what Zeg is discussing, it really is not feasible for him to do much more than note that a shit situation is going on in Darfur since he does not have the resources to deal with it, and it does suck that the UN is too corrupt to apply the dreaded G word to the situation.

among the various problems of the world, imo, sudan ranks #1. its basically nazi-germany in africa. janjaweed militia will openly mow people down, in a hellbent attempt at erradicating every non-muslim blackie they can spot. its a fact, fact, fact, and the fucking UN is too busy with fucking semantics :(
"do we call this genocide? or do we call it mass killing of black people? or do we call it mass-massacres? or mass-mass-murder? what a pickle! what do we CALL it!?"

the UN is a fucking joke

also reminds me of the massacres in georgia. how awful it has to be, a citizen of a european country, to have to watch your children get cut into pieces in front of you, and _nothing_ happens to save you from it. people rounded up into sport stadiums, and sprayed w bullets and hand grenades. at least africans dont expect anything to save them, but these are europeans :S it happened well into the 2000s

it just goes to show what a fucking joke the UN is.
the UN did "note" that this was a bad situation, then sat back and had their coffees. corrupt up to the eyeballs...

*rolls my sleves up* im gonna fly to abkhazia, and deal with it :D wish me luck guys!

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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #24 on: March 17, 2011, 05:58:16 PM »
 :agreed: Just like the UN response in Rwanda.  :thumbdn:

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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #25 on: March 17, 2011, 06:20:16 PM »
:agreed: Just like the UN response in Rwanda.  :thumbdn:

UN in africa is worse than a joke. theres been situations where people are _raped_ by UN soldiers (apparently, screening isnt a big deal all of the time.... ), which discredits the UN there, which makes african rebels more than happy to assault UN convoys, and slaughter them all, which has also happened

i guess the UN is like any corrupt police force. theyre welcome in the wealthy white neighborhood, but act like dicks and are treated like dicks when venturing into the ghetto

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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #26 on: March 17, 2011, 06:33:53 PM »
best reply so far.
It can sometimes be hard to stand in the face of the confusing emotional message of complaints because they're sometimes presented in an aggressive tone. If it's not aggressive then likely to be whiny; not sure which is uglier.
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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #27 on: March 17, 2011, 07:40:15 PM »
When people complain, it's most times just to be heard. Though the listener will often misunderstand as seeking of advice or solution, which can cause frustraiton for the listener who might not know what to advise, or for the speaker who might not really want to be told what to do. Don't really like to hear people complain as never know what to tell them, so just say nothing and that seems to do fine.

best reply so far.

also, bodaccea, best example so far. im gonna fling it back at the next ones, who tell me to "get off my ass and do something about" whatever i find to be unfair in the world :D
"so i take it you must be pro-pedophilia, since you arent out there right now beating the shit of every single one of them systematically. at least trying everything within your power to hunt them down!"
ahh how do you know i am not doing something about it???   I have 'hit back'   I have a different approach thats all. :2thumbsup:
blah blah blah

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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #28 on: March 17, 2011, 07:53:02 PM »
best reply so far.
It can sometimes be hard to stand in the face of the confusing emotional message of complaints because they're sometimes presented in an agressive tone. If it's not agressive then likely to be whiny; not sure which is uglier.

i know what you mean.,

growing up with my brother, we got used to just laughing at each others grievances, and in all honesty THAT is usually the reaction i prefer/expect when complaining about mundane stuff, such as crappy programs crashes or stuff, when people get all "stop complaining you whiny bitch" i simply feel misunderstood more than anything

other than my brother, ive met VERY few people who will react with laughter to my complaints. like ive said here a few times, most of the time i just want to vent, and let people laugh at my strife a little :D
when it comes to politics and world affairs, im just exchanging opinions. anyone w a brain knows that i cant run to korea to fix things, or to sudan, or somalia, i find it pathetic when people suggest that to me

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Re: why are people SO annoyed by complaining?
« Reply #29 on: March 17, 2011, 08:34:54 PM »
best reply so far.
It can sometimes be hard to stand in the face of the confusing emotional message of complaints because they're sometimes presented in an agressive tone. If it's not agressive then likely to be whiny; not sure which is uglier.

i know what you mean.,

growing up with my brother, we got used to just laughing at each others grievances, and in all honesty THAT is usually the reaction i prefer/expect when complaining about mundane stuff, such as crappy programs crashes or stuff, when people get all "stop complaining you whiny bitch" i simply feel misunderstood more than anything

other than my brother, ive met VERY few people who will react with laughter to my complaints. like ive said here a few times, most of the time i just want to vent, and let people laugh at my strife a little :D
when it comes to politics and world affairs, im just exchanging opinions. anyone w a brain knows that i cant run to korea to fix things, or to sudan, or somalia, i find it pathetic when people suggest that to me

i think we all hate it when people tell us to do something thats not realistic... such as the school psych telling me to walk away from kids who upset me after i got in a fight and beat the shit out of them... the reply to said comment was "have you ever been punched in the back of the head or the kidney? it hurts... have you ever walked away from your parents when there trying to discipline you? it just gets you in more shit. walking away only works when shit isnt hitting the fan and if shits not hitting the fan then there is no reason to walk away"... people are idiots they will never stop being idiots and in the end we will just have to put up with them or shoot them are selves 

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