We had this thread a fair while back...so I thought I'd ask everyone again...
Do you use the default look and feel for the site, or some of the alternatives, like Black Rain?
I notice the majority of users use the default....have you tried another theme?
Every time I do try to switch, it feels weird, like it's a completely different site....but one day I'm going to force myself to use it for a week and see how I go.