ok, thanks. i understand a little better now. not been into forums before and i found wp and thought it was cool, then i found you guys and i havent been back to wp since.!! no real reason except this site is better and a smaller number of members.
as a newbie though, it was apparent that many didn't like wp, also that there are two members who aren't very popular, and that whining is a no no.
the last one i agree with, the second one is none of my business, and now you have answered the first one! thank you