Hey Al
I only just caught this thread. Sorry. Or else I would surely have wished you well along with everybody else.
But the good thing is that my state of suspense about how this pans out for you didn't last long. Really pleased to hear you're doing good.
Yep, it's funny to hear an Aspie described as a ""people person""
but I think your boss was really onto something there. I'm thinking of all the good, patient advice that you've often offered on our more private boards. You really
are a good listener and I don't think that's uncommon for an Aspie at all. I think that many of us are
genuinely interested in other people..as opposed to that superficial , rote, stage-managed crap that neurotypicals are pleased to call social interaction. So we tend to make good calls when it actually matters. And we often do make good supervisors, if we can be co-opted into the role.
As for that co-worker of yours...I guess she's finally got it into her thick skull that you're not a competitor after all , so now she's turned on her charm with you instead. I'd continue to be wary thiough. People with that degree of self-interest don't change character overnight, and i do believe she'll make a really crappy supervisor, and is probably making
somebody's life a misery, if not yours.
Like they say, people who really
want to have positions of power are the last people we ought to appoint to the same