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Re: What have I done to be so hated here?
« Reply #75 on: January 01, 2011, 11:08:50 PM »
But just posting about how you feel awful and how life is shit and full of injustice isn't gonna help you.

I'm not having a go at you - I know from experience. I used to post whiny shit all the time as well. It feels like it helps at the time, but it doesn't really. It just encourages you to keep sitting in your little bubble of misery.

Can't you meet anyone IRL? I know you're shit at socialising etc, as most of us are. But what about an autism group or something?

There aren't any autism groups for adults in West Tennessee that I know of. Otherwise, I probably would have attended it at least once. I don't think I have ever seen another autistic person IRL.

The only person that I see IRL is my former foster mother. Maybe I'll try talking to her about my problems. I tend to bottle myself up a lot IRL.

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Re: What have I done to be so hated here?
« Reply #76 on: January 01, 2011, 11:10:45 PM »
Won't you be going to college or something soon?
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Re: What have I done to be so hated here?
« Reply #77 on: January 01, 2011, 11:12:00 PM »
But just posting about how you feel awful and how life is shit and full of injustice isn't gonna help you.

I'm not having a go at you - I know from experience. I used to post whiny shit all the time as well. It feels like it helps at the time, but it doesn't really. It just encourages you to keep sitting in your little bubble of misery.

Can't you meet anyone IRL? I know you're shit at socialising etc, as most of us are. But what about an autism group or something?

There aren't any autism groups for adults in West Tennessee that I know of. Otherwise, I probably would have attended it at least once. I don't think I have ever seen another autistic person IRL.

The only person that I see IRL is my former foster mother. Maybe I'll try talking to her about my problems. I tend to bottle myself up a lot IRL.

Try the mental health section of the nearest medical school.  They may know of a group.  Adult help is hard to find.  Good luck.  
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Re: What have I done to be so hated here?
« Reply #78 on: January 01, 2011, 11:14:17 PM »
Maybe I'm just impatient. Yes, I'm going to have my first classes on the 13th. But I don't think I want to go out of my way to try to socialize. I'll just make a fool out of myself.

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Re: What have I done to be so hated here?
« Reply #79 on: January 01, 2011, 11:16:03 PM »
I know if I go out of my way to, I make an idiot of myself. Just be yourself, no need to put an act on. Good on you for going. :)
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Re: What have I done to be so hated here?
« Reply #80 on: January 01, 2011, 11:16:52 PM »
Maybe I'm just impatient. Yes, I'm going to have my first classes on the 13th. But I don't think I want to go out of my way to try to socialize. I'll just make a fool out of myself.

Just spend a week or two figuring out your classmates before you make any advances.  Just be patient.
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Re: What have I done to be so hated here?
« Reply #81 on: January 01, 2011, 11:20:25 PM »
There aren't any autism groups for adults in West Tennessee that I know of.
There are several. Would you like a pm?

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Re: What have I done to be so hated here?
« Reply #82 on: January 01, 2011, 11:33:34 PM »
There aren't any autism groups for adults in West Tennessee that I know of.
There are several. Would you like a pm?
Maybe instead of doing it by pm we should put a sticky thread of spazz meeting places. I could add The M.I.N.D. Institute.

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Re: What have I done to be so hated here?
« Reply #83 on: January 01, 2011, 11:38:43 PM »
There aren't any autism groups for adults in West Tennessee that I know of.
There are several. Would you like a pm?
Maybe instead of doing it by pm we should put a sticky thread of spazz meeting places. I could add The M.I.N.D. Institute.

Isn't this a spazz meeting place? The internet is no more imaginary than life outside the internet. ;)
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Re: What have I done to be so hated here?
« Reply #84 on: January 01, 2011, 11:41:19 PM »
That sounds nice. Will put what I found here in the meantime. Suggested pm because West Tennessee is a big area and didn't want to ask exactly where in the open forum. This is a list of resources in that region of the state. A lot of it is medical and educational services geared for children and families, but did see a couple of adult services and support groups listed.

http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:Y6SHMePpCssJ:kc.vanderbilt.edu/kennedy_files/TennesseeAutismResourceList.xls+west+tennessee+autism&cd=2&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us


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Re: What have I done to be so hated here?
« Reply #86 on: January 01, 2011, 11:53:36 PM »
I would :plus: you Osensitive1.
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Re: What have I done to be so hated here?
« Reply #87 on: January 01, 2011, 11:57:37 PM »
Someone just give me a recap of what I have done ever since I have joined, because I forget a lot of times. The only members who are nice to me are the females. Most of the males (and the one shemale one here) are assjocks to me.


Are you really that oblivious?


You spammed this place like crazy and got sinbinned for it. You have trolled here right and bragged about doing it elsewhere. That's all I remember. So lucky for you.

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Re: What have I done to be so hated here?
« Reply #88 on: January 02, 2011, 12:00:54 AM »
Here is the thread Osensitive. http://www.intensitysquared.com/index.php/topic,16199.0.html


Isn't this a spazz meeting place? The internet is no more imaginary than life outside the internet. ;)
Actually meeting other people on the spectrum is different than posting on a web site.

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Re: What have I done to be so hated here?
« Reply #89 on: January 02, 2011, 12:13:26 AM »
Here is the thread Osensitive. http://www.intensitysquared.com/index.php/topic,16199.0.html


Isn't this a spazz meeting place? The internet is no more imaginary than life outside the internet. ;)
Actually meeting other people on the spectrum is different than posting on a web site.

Of course it is different. I did not mean to imply otherwise.
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