I'm coming into this one real late but I'll still give my 2 cents - bullies mess with people who don't want to be messed with, seems like a lot of us are looking for people of equal functioning level, saying all kinds of smartass things, almost like we're cutting our teeth or exercising our more NT-geared guy-talk or girl talk. For me I'm totally fine with that because it feels like I'm kicking it with a bunch of my friends, saying whatever the hell I'd want to, and its a more relaxed atmosphere. When your at a site that has to be restricted to respect younger members, while there's definitely a point to that, it does kinda jam up the social flow to a point.