Radical thought and my philosophy.
Every moment of every day I am a different person than I was the moment before. My body may have had sex, but not me, the emotional, thinking, mindly me. So every time I make love with Prince Albert I am a virgin. The body may be used, but not the essence of me.
Don't let what others say bother you. Some of the world's greatest people were/are most likely virgins - Mother Teresa, Queen Elizabeth I, Stephen Hawkings. It doesn't stop them from making wonderful contributions to humanity.