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Advice to desperate autistic females.
« on: October 12, 2006, 11:15:47 AM »
They need none. Apparently, only the disabled male equivalent are the desperate and unlucky ones for companionship. They just need to bend over for some random horny guy, and hey presto. :moon:

Congratulations! You have a boyfriend!

I wish I had a vagina, so I can lure all the horny guys into my web like the legendary Succubus, Lilith.

(All sarcasm, btw.)
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Re: Advice to desperate autistic females.
« Reply #1 on: October 12, 2006, 11:49:33 AM »
I know that it may seem that way to you, Peaguy, but that's not the way it really is from my point-of-view.

In the first place, I would never bend over for some random horny guy.  Before I was married the guy would have to be very special to me in many ways.  Now, of course there is only one man who is that special to me.

In the second place, I know some AS females who have many of the same relationship problems that many AS guys have.  I know that it has been easier for me in some ways than it has been for them because men have always found me pretty, but even so, I have had lots of problems too.  I had to wonder if the men pursuing a relationship were only attracted to my looks or if there was a deeper connection between us that would be stronger than their reaction to my differences.

Quote from: thepeaguy on October 12, 2006, 11:15:47 AM
(All sarcasm, btw.)

Thanks for the edit.  You reeled me right in.  Good one, Peaguy. 8)
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Re: Advice to desperate autistic females.
« Reply #2 on: October 12, 2006, 11:54:21 AM »
Quote from: thepeaguy on October 12, 2006, 11:15:47 AM
They need none. Apparently, only the disabled male equivalent are the desperate and unlucky ones for companionship. They just need to bend over for some random, horny guy, and hey presto. :moon:

Congratulations! You have a boyfriend!

I wish I had a vagina, so I can lure all the horny guys into my web like the legendary Succubus, Lilith.

(All sarcasm, btw.)

my advice:
get yourself a flo.
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Re: Advice to desperate autistic females.
« Reply #3 on: October 12, 2006, 11:56:42 AM »
I know a couple of women with AS who can't get a bf.  Mainly because their looks are horrible and their personality mind-numbing.
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Re: Advice to desperate autistic females.
« Reply #4 on: October 12, 2006, 12:34:32 PM »
Quote from: tomrenegade on October 12, 2006, 11:56:42 AM
I know a couple of women with AS who can't get a bf.  Mainly because their looks are horrible and their personality mind-numbing.

Oh, goody for you. And this is coming from the manic-depressive chico above me.

Quote from: Callaway on October 12, 2006, 11:49:33 AM
I know that it may seem that way to you, Peaguy, but that's not the way it really is from my point-of-view.

In the first place, I would never bend over for some random horny guy.  Before I was married the guy would have to be very special to me in many ways.  Now, of course there is only one man who is that special to me.

In the second place, I know some AS females who have many of the same relationship problems that many AS guys have.  I know that it has been easier for me in some ways than it has been for them because men have always found me pretty, but even so, I have had lots of problems too.  I had to wonder if the men pursuing a relationship were only attracted to my looks or if there was a deeper connection between us that would be stronger than their reaction to my differences.

Quote from: thepeaguy on October 12, 2006, 11:15:47 AM
(All sarcasm, btw.)

Thanks for the edit.  You reeled me right in.  Good one, Peaguy. 8)

I was just taking the piss out of the stereotype that one gender has it far easier than the latter. No hard feelings, eh?
« Last Edit: October 12, 2006, 12:36:48 PM by thepeaguy »
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Re: Advice to desperate autistic females.
« Reply #5 on: October 12, 2006, 12:39:45 PM »
None at all.  Sometimes I totally miss sarcasm and take things too literally.

I really meant that it was a good one.
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Re: Advice to desperate autistic females.
« Reply #6 on: October 12, 2006, 12:40:59 PM »
Quote from: Callaway on October 12, 2006, 12:39:45 PM
None at all.  Sometimes I totally miss sarcasm and take things too literally.


You aren't the only one, love. I got the same issues myself.
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Re: Advice to desperate autistic females.
« Reply #7 on: October 12, 2006, 02:41:01 PM »
Some female aspies I have met talk in a too loud voice and talk incessantly, and you get a headache listening to them.  I think that is what puts the guys off more than anything.
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Re: Advice to desperate autistic females.
« Reply #8 on: October 12, 2006, 04:05:14 PM »
I think you could compromise with that.  Just listen to really loud heavy metal.  It will dull your ears to compensate for the increased volume of their voice.
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Re: Advice to desperate autistic females.
« Reply #9 on: October 13, 2006, 12:48:41 AM »
Quote from: Callaway on October 12, 2006, 12:39:45 PM
None at all.  Sometimes I totally miss sarcasm and take things too literally.

I really meant that it was a good one.


Callaway did an AS thing!

Callaway did an AS thing!

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Re: Advice to desperate autistic females.
« Reply #10 on: October 13, 2006, 03:14:52 AM »
Quote from: Nomaken on October 12, 2006, 04:05:14 PM
I think you could compromise with that.  Just listen to really loud heavy metal.  It will dull your ears to compensate for the increased volume of their voice.

are you kidding bud!  We think alike!  I did exactly that!  When it happenedin the past  I had my mp3 with Maidens Number of the Beast and Powerslave and I was like talk over THAT bitch!!!!!
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Re: Advice to desperate autistic females.
« Reply #11 on: October 13, 2006, 03:18:03 AM »
Quote from: tomrenegade on October 13, 2006, 03:14:52 AM
Quote from: Nomaken on October 12, 2006, 04:05:14 PM
I think you could compromise with that.  Just listen to really loud heavy metal.  It will dull your ears to compensate for the increased volume of their voice.

are you kidding bud!  We think alike!  I did exactly that!  When it happenedin the past  I had my mp3 with Maidens Number of the Beast and Powerslave and I was like talk over THAT bitch!!!!!

And people wonder why so many aspie males are single  ::)   :P
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Re: Advice to desperate autistic females.
« Reply #12 on: October 13, 2006, 03:30:37 AM »
I like being single.  I do not want a relationship.  I am much happier sticking with my friends.
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Re: Advice to desperate autistic females.
« Reply #13 on: October 13, 2006, 07:04:05 AM »
Quote from: La_Mala on October 13, 2006, 03:30:37 AM
I like being single.  I do not want a relationship.  I am much happier sticking with my friends.

Good for you (and I mean that sincerly). 
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Re: Advice to desperate autistic females.
« Reply #14 on: October 13, 2006, 07:04:59 AM »
Quote from: Lucifer on October 13, 2006, 12:48:41 AM
Quote from: Callaway on October 12, 2006, 12:39:45 PM
None at all.  Sometimes I totally miss sarcasm and take things too literally.

I really meant that it was a good one.


Callaway did an AS thing!

Callaway did an AS thing!

:laugh:

 :razz:

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