WP seemed too restrictive after awhile, and people like Quatermass, Ragtime, paratwat and Sinsbitchly fucked it up.
AFF isn't bad, but you have to really watch what you say.
ZOMG was good, cos it was like here, and the games were something to keep you amused when the forums were slow.
Aspie Central needs to grow a bit more, so I haven't really seen much of how it works. Ian is a good admin.
Here is probably the best I've been on (especially since ZOMG is gone), because you can virtually say what you want and have a good laugh.
Spasticity should have been given a better go, but didn't attract members.
DamnedVillage was the only real one I had huge probs with, and that preceded a meltdown anyway.
chaos got too confusing.
And I haven't been to the Drivel, Gestalt or Spectrumites.