you cant ask for advice
then be even "ever so slightly" sarcastical about throwing it back in their face.
just another fact of life, and its undebatable. it goes for everyone.
one thing i have learned myself in fact is, figure out wether you even WANT advice, or wether you just want to vent. then let peole know. i complain about a lot of stuff, but i let people know that my main interest is to just get shit off my chest.