Kit, you just get real threatened when I say someone is "not autistic". I just don't have enough theory of mind to relate to some of these people here who are attacking me for not being a nice person, even though they themselves aren't, and that's just my way of saying it.
No I just find it pathetic and annoying. I don't go around undiagnosing people just because they aren't nice or because they did things.
So you were saying telling someone they aren't autisic is your way of saying "I don't relate to you?" (This is a genuine question)
Right! Anything I give you will just be ammunition you can use to try to ridicule and humiliate some more. I know this about you from experience.
Okay. I took you literal then when you were saying it. I don't relate to other autistics either nor pregnant women. Only things I can relate to is if they have the same experiance as me.
Could be my own problem as well.
It's pretty much a common problem with Autism. So, I hope you can see, or at least try to see, that when people have reached out to you here, they also have their own limitations - but they tried.
Just because someone doesn't say they've gone through XYZ like you, doesn't mean they haven't.
Sometimes it is good to assume someone has good intentions, and if they don't, then it's a reflection of them, rather than you....there's no point going 'oh stop picking on me'.
phobia.
