We don't usually have gravestones in New Orleans. We bury above ground in family tombs. I will be the 4th generation in ours. There are a few military headstones placed at the base of the family tombs for those killed in war, possibly because the body was not recovered or returned. Anyway, it won't be much, if anything for me. No one left to look at it after the Princess Royal dies.
What should it say? I have no idea. I'm not finished living my life yet.