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Celticgoddess

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Hello Campers
« on: May 30, 2010, 12:00:44 PM »
Just wanted to pop in and say hello and tell you that I'm back now. Anybody miss me?   :zoinks:

Here's the coles notes on why I left, where I've been, and what's been happenin'

* The separation has been nasty and everything I feared most, and you all warned me about did indeed happen. Custody has been mediated and the ex didn't get his way of splitting up the kids. He wanted to give me my daughter 2 weekends a month and not let the children see each other more than that due to my son's autism. Saying he can have visiting rights with his sister when he basically proves him to be...well...less autistic. You can imagine how well that went down with me.

*The mediator was amazing and politely called him all on all of his bullshit. Including the times he said that I haven't been part of my daughters life until a few months ago. Dude, I'm a stay at home Mum and you were working 60-120 hours a week. Who the hell do you think raised her? So he didn't get his way but we compromised. I fear he'll lose the son simply due to his own ignorance. My little guy will be 12 at the end of the year and he gets that his Dad just doesn't get him.

* All of that threw me under the bus and I just needed to disappear for awhile. My family doctor wants me to start going to a clinic that specializes in women who have been abused. His level of control and emotional/verbal abuse has skyrocketed.

*Unfortunately he's still in the house and won't leave until everything has been signed off on. So it looks like he'll move out in the fall or shortly after. We have to sort through financials next and then property division.In a few weeks it will have been a year since we started this whole process and he just.won't.go. For pete's sake, fuck off and get your own house already.

* In the good news department, things are still awesome with the boy ;) I went to see him in March and had an incredible time.

So that's about it! Oh, and I broke my toe yesterday. Dammit it hurts like a sonofabitch.  :lol:

I've missed you guys.  :-*

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Re: Hello Campers
« Reply #1 on: May 30, 2010, 01:11:16 PM »
hey cg i missed you.

sounds shitty. you should hear what's been going on with our situation . i bet we could swap some pretty crappy stories :P

i'm glad you have ebm anyway. things will get better once you get thru all this shite. people can be really fucktards. it's even worse when they're doing it to kids ffs. sickening

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Re: Hello Campers
« Reply #2 on: May 30, 2010, 02:28:16 PM »
Sorry to hear about the problems but it's nice that your back
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Re: Hello Campers
« Reply #3 on: May 30, 2010, 02:37:13 PM »
It's great to see you, CelticGoddess.

I'm sorry about your jerky ex and your broken toe.  Which one did you break?

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My family doctor wants me to start going to a clinic that specializes in women who have been abused. His level of control and emotional/verbal abuse has skyrocketed.

I think that's a very good idea.  Having a husband who is that controlling is just a very thin line from having one who physically beats you regularly.  Either way, you have to walk on eggshells all the time so you won't set him off and that's a difficult way to live.  Also, it's pretty typical for abusive partners to step up the abuse when they see that they are losing control of their spouses.

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Re: Hello Campers
« Reply #4 on: May 30, 2010, 03:26:13 PM »
Hey CelticGoddes, sorry to hear about that... welcome back. :viking:
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Re: Hello Campers
« Reply #5 on: May 30, 2010, 03:50:11 PM »
Hi CG, it's good to have you back! I'm sorry you had to go through such a rough time. Hope things will start looking better soon.
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Re: Hello Campers
« Reply #6 on: May 30, 2010, 06:25:00 PM »
It is soooo nice to be back to my little dysfunctional family.  :laugh:

Soph - I'm so jealous of your beardie! I want one so badly. I'll get one after the ex moves out and things settled. I'm obsessed with them.

Superboyian - What a surprise to see you hangin around this joint. Don't let them corrupt you too badly. You're a sweet guy.  ;)

And hugs to the rest of you. C'mon, you know you love it.  :P

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Re: Hello Campers
« Reply #7 on: May 30, 2010, 06:30:40 PM »
Welcome back, it is good to see you again. :)
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Re: Hello Campers
« Reply #8 on: May 30, 2010, 06:49:34 PM »
Welcome back.

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Re: Hello Campers
« Reply #9 on: May 30, 2010, 08:12:22 PM »
Yay! I was just missing you, now here you are! :party:




Sorry about the pain in your life, wishing you more of the good. :hug:
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Re: Hello Campers
« Reply #10 on: May 30, 2010, 09:46:30 PM »
Joined while you were out. Welcome back.

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Re: Hello Campers
« Reply #11 on: May 30, 2010, 10:27:50 PM »
Glad to see you back CG! Hopefully things will start looking better for you soon. :hug:

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Re: Hello Campers
« Reply #12 on: May 31, 2010, 02:43:00 AM »
Superboyian - What a surprise to see you hangin around this joint. Don't let them corrupt you too badly. You're a sweet guy.  ;)

Thanks. :D

That I won't let it happen as I'm my own person and that own person is pretty awesome. ;D
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« Reply #13 on: May 31, 2010, 05:36:48 AM »
Sorry to hear what you've been through CG. I think I posted in one of your threads about wondering how you were and what had happened to you, so an update is nice, although disappointing that your ex is so controlling about moving on with things.

Good luck with your counselling. So bad when someone else's fucked up traits become part of your own behaviour and responses.

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Re: Hello Campers
« Reply #14 on: May 31, 2010, 07:10:56 AM »
Superboyian - What a surprise to see you hangin around this joint. Don't let them corrupt you too badly. You're a sweet guy.  ;)

Thanks. :D

That I won't let it happen as I'm my own person and that own person is pretty awesome. ;D

Actually you belong to us now. :evillaugh:
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