Unfortunately I have intimacy issues and could never sleep with someone untill I felt really comfortable with them. The few relationshiops I've had have ended because I never felt comfortable enough to sleep with them, and in the end the guys have drifted away because they felt I wasn't attracted to them. I promised my last boyfriend I would sleep with him but I kept putting it off and in the end getting away from him was one of the main reasons I ended up moving from Scotland to N.Ireland.