Meadow Meadow Meadow, this is I2 so this behavior is tolerated and we do this stuff to each other. I don't get offended when my friend Duke makes fun of me here or when Phlexor says offensive things to me. When I am here, I am tough and don't take things seriously. However in PM or IM it's different.
If you are feeling very sensitive and vulnerable, please stay off this forum. I have done the same too in the past.
How do you know none of us had abusive parents? You are just making assumptions again.
You need to take responsibility over your behavior. If someone is being mean to you, why not ask them why they are treating you that way and see if you did anything wrong to piss them off. Sometimes people fight back in return when someone is mean to them and you may not realize you did something to them that set them off. So the solution to that problem is apologize and move on. If it doesn't get that person off your back, then it's their problem now and they really do love to fight.
So instead of playing the victim, take responsibility, apologize, listen to people, listen to their advice so your life be easier and there be a lot less mean people around you. If you can't change that about yourself and your views, then you will continue having mean people on your back. They are just fighting back in defense.
Also people having different views than you and seeing things different than you doesn't make them bad people.
Take this as my friendly advice. Take it or leave it.