Er, no, IMHO. Most of our problems stem from the disorder itself. You don't have to like it any more than a blind would have to like being forced to manage without eyesight, but to get by you do need to be aware of your problems so you can compensate.
Blaming your problems on the vast majority of those around is not brave, IMO.
It's not a disorder at all, it's society that made it a "disorder".
Just to take one example: for the NTs it's perfectly OK to make up lies, just to be "sociable". It's even expected on many or most occasions, while I myself only lie if I really have to or to keep someone from knowing something dreadful that won't help them anyway. I will never accept it being OK to lie like NTs do, just because they're a majority. It's only "normal" statistically, nothing else.
The fact is that because of the disorder (or rather, the group of disorders, and yes, so sorry, I do think it is a disorder), we miss a huge portion of the non-verbal communication taking place between the vast majority of the population. Quite a few of us have problems with language and communication--I see my son struggling with this every day, not because he is stupid but because he is autistic--and comorbids such as OCD and ADD are common, etc, etc, etc. Ignoring these facts is not going to help you, just as pretending that the blind's lack of eyesight is everyone else's problem, not his, will help the blind.
You can overcome your limitations only when being aware of them. Yes, the society can help, and yes, those around you can help, but it's not THEIR responsibility to find out about and compensate for those limitations to the extent possible, it's YOURS. They have their own problems; why should they care about yours? It's not a blame game and treating it as such will only serve to make your life more miserable than it has to be.