I will never be able to convince people like Phlexor and Shleed. But this doesn't mean their opinions are invalid. What they've posted here I've already thought about at length many times. And discussed them with my psychologist many times. It's really circular. If I really only just insecure about who I am I wouldn't have pointed myself in the transgender direction. There are many other "delusions" that could've presented itself to help me overcome my "insecurity", such as narcissism, or borderline personality.
*shrugs* As I said, I won't be able to convince anyone who isn't already open minded to trans issues. There is no analogies, there is no explanations, nothing that would put it in a frame that they could understand. And I understand why they don't understand. It's a complex, confusing issue. But one that has presented itself throughout history, and throughout the animal kingdom.
If I were so insecure about my gender identity, don't you think I'd have corrected all these "he" pronouns you're all using? But, as you feel no need to defend your sexuality Shleed, I too feel no need to defend my gender identity.