I think that marriage can be either great or horrible depending on the two people who are married.
I love being married to my husband, too.
We are partners and best friends and neither one of us is the other one's boss. My husband's and my strengths and weaknesses complement one another. While raising our daughter can be a little challenging sometimes, it's much easier to raise her together than it would be without each of us having the other one to back us up. I would give my life to save his or our daughter's lives and I know he feels the same way about us.
I thought you said you weren't married to your partner, Wandrew. If you are so unhappy, what is stopping you from walking away? I know that she needs you, but I don't know whether you need her too.