ask mcfagger dirty sex questions, or anything else.

[McGiver]

calandale, i have had a vibrator, about the size of an asian man's dick.

[Calandale]

Thanks.

I did cigar tubes, but nothing bigger.

[McGiver]

Thanks.

I did cigar tubes, but nothing bigger.

it wouldn't bother me to work my way up to something larger, but my wife isn't a kinky lady and i don't cheat.

[Eclair]

Thanks.

I did cigar tubes, but nothing bigger.

it wouldn't bother me to work my way up to something larger, but my wife isn't a kinky lady and i don't cheat.

Baby, she would have to be kinky to settle for you...I think there's something you aren't telling us...

so much for your 'ask me any sex questions' thread...

[Calandale]

Thanks.

I did cigar tubes, but nothing bigger.

it wouldn't bother me to work my way up to something larger, but my wife isn't a kinky lady and i don't cheat.

I was never too excited about much larger. It was enough to
stimulate my prostate. Incidentally, it was more something
I'd do by myself.

Do you find this type of masturbation (if it can be called that
even - for me it was almost never sexual) to be cheating?

[Eclair]

Thanks.

I did cigar tubes, but nothing bigger.

it wouldn't bother me to work my way up to something larger, but my wife isn't a kinky lady and i don't cheat.

I was never too excited about much larger. It was enough to
stimulate my prostate. Incidentally, it was more something
I'd do by myself.

Do you find this type of masturbation (if it can be called that
even - for me it was almost never sexual) to be cheating?

Sorry, but how is any type of masturbating cheating???

[Calandale]

I don't know. Say if one is doing so while
involved in cyber-sex? In some ways, I
could see ANY masturbation as cheating,
if it takes away from one's partner.

[Eclair]

I must have different rules then...nothing unusual...

[purposefulinsanity]

I must have different rules then...nothing unusual...

Me too- as far as the masturbation and sex stuff goes.  I just don't see how masturbation could be considered cheating (possibly if you considered cyber sex as anything other than interactive porn).

[Eclair]

I had an ex who had really fucked up rules about this...whereas I think the big M word is your own domain..you shouldn't have to necessarily have to explain it to anyone else because it's all fantasy anyway.

[Calandale]

I rather like understanding what someone else is thinking
though. I guess that there are fantasies that one should
keep private - but, for the most part, it strikes me as
a way of further sharing. I would often describe my
fantasies to my wife - but hers were often much more
amorphous - just touching and sensations.

[DirtDawg]

Thanks.

I did cigar tubes, but nothing bigger.

it wouldn't bother me to work my way up to something larger, but my wife isn't a kinky lady and i don't cheat.

I was never too excited about much larger. It was enough to
stimulate my prostate. Incidentally, it was more something
I'd do by myself.

Do you find this type of masturbation (if it can be called that
even - for me it was almost never sexual) to be cheating?

Sorry, but how is any type of masturbating cheating???

My ex-wife held that idea and tried to check to see if I had been masturbating, sometimes. She was also a psychotic, jealous bitch sporting some (now that I know more) bipolar behaviors. I did not masturbate to get off when she and I were together, because we usually fucked three or four times per day. I did not need to relieve myself between times, but I masturbated to "get it puffed up and de-sensitize it". I was young and had not learned how to control ejaculation indefinitely, at that point. She thougt of it as cheating on her.

[Litigious]

When I was younger I actually had the thought that you shouldn't jerk off when you had a partner, beacuse you were supposed to cum inside her and nowhere else.

[Eclair]

I actually think my perfect partner would be quite into whatever I choose to be masturbating about...but again, that's probably just a fantasy which is what masturbating is all about. 

I did have a partner who couldn't believe that I enjoyed it if he jeriked off...I think a lot of people just get way too possessive about sex and think they have a right to dictate everything to you or else it somehow takes away from their attractiveness.

[DirtDawg]

My ex-wife was very possessive in many ways. She was the jealous type to begin with, but I also think her phobias were complicated by the fact that she and I lost our virginities together. She owned my ass and I was pussy whipped into thinking that she was the only partner I would ever have or something. I did fine after we split up the first time and I had a different attitude when we got back together.