The binary view gender is flawed and false. I tried to explain that. But it seems some people just don't get it.
Yes you seem to be hanging onto this concept and lecturing us on how we are not getting it.
It is fantastic that you understand the concept that there is not fixed roles within the genders. There is flux and diversity and individualism between both. But then I have not said that and as much as you tout this line over and over ("explaining it over and over") I and others are not disputing it so I fail to see why you should felt obliged to get on your soapbox and lecture us on shit we understand already and don't question.
I am thinking this is some fallback position. "They (Non-transgender people) don't get it (what transgender means or feels like or anything else). I am sick of explaining it (rehashing irrelevances to what is being questioned, in order to try to taint the questionee with a false intolerance)"
This is not that subtle GA. You have stated your opinion on transgender issues and that is fine and you have shown great over-sensitivity which is fine. You are probably researched and have an educated opinion. That doesn't mean you have the only opinion worth considering does it? Seriously? That does not mean that any talk negatively or positively needs your endorsement or that if they are different from yours that the other person is intolerant or ignorant. Right?
OK let's try this on GA. You ARE over-sensitive and in an over-reaction to defending all transgendered people from the horrible transphobic comments. You are seeing Binary attitudes to gender stereotyping where they don't exist, and intolerance and bigotry where it does not exist.
Why?
You are too willing to condemn me and others who are not transgendered. You are making this an issue of transgender vs non-trangendered and on one side your opinion: clever tolerant, and all-knowing and on the other, binary, intolerance and ignorance. There is a word and it isn't nice. Tell me what it is GA. (This type of mental them and us bias).