"Teasing girls is a good thing and counts as part of flirting"
youre one of the few women I've met who will admit that.
Teasing is part of it all. Both ways. And not in a first stage of being attractive by teasing and being distant.
No, teasing goes together with respect. It's a game of confidence. Nothing to do with putting women in their place.
That video. Well, you are one of the the last guy on earth I'd date seeing the video. That you even think on putting a woman in her place as important in dating. Yuk.
Oh, I can't give dating advice. Just bumped into the people I liked without preying, hunting or needing. I do know that preying, hunting and neediness is a major turn-off for me. Too cocky people turn me off too.
Inner confidence, the guts to be who you are, and the guts to respect others for who they are, that I do like. But that is very different from arrogance and cocky behaviour.