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[Tom/Mutate]

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[Blasted]

You sir, are a prat.

[Adam]

dude, the last thing we need is to start giving EACH OTHER dating advice  :lol:

man i am not gonna ask other aspie guys how to be successful with women  

[Blasted]

You sir, are a prat.

and it took a lot of work, women didnt want me before I was a prat.

No wonder your current relationship is so toxic 

[Adam]

ahh dude, you are getting this all wrong

there is no book on the planet that will let you "understand a woman's mind deeply"

[Tom/Mutate]

You sir, are a prat.

and it took a lot of work, women didnt want me before I was a prat.

No wonder your current relationship is so toxic 

you have a point.

[Celticgoddess]

okay, I'll watch the video. Be back in a mere 8 mins with my conclusion.

[Tom/Mutate]

the video is just humor to get attention anyway. 

[Blasted]

I particularly love the part where he's teaching guys how to be an arse - the clothes from charity shops etc.

[Tom/Mutate]

arses DO get laid, even if its just with dumb women.  Most desperate AS men i know would be happy with anything.

[Blasted]

I'm not saying they don't.  It doesn't mean men should strive to be arses as in the long term, that wouldn't get them much.

[Adam]

i'm not that desperate to get laid that i'll go out of my way to be a twat just so i can fuck some slutty (and probably ugly) whore

[Celticgoddess]

Annnnnnd, i"m back 4 mins early. Huge load of bullshit (B knows me well, I stopped right after the backhanded compliment stage). and let's be honest here Tom. You do believe what you were suggesting because it's exactly the way you behaved with LB. You were verbally abusive to her and she did play into it because she was desperate for any kind of attention, be it positive or negative.

If you give out bullshit, you get bullshit back. If you want quality, then what you put out there is respect. If Aspie men followed that advice then they have just successfully dumbed down the male race and and done Aspie men a huge injustice overall. A few emotional/verbal/physical abusive asses gives the rest of the good guys a bad rep.

[Blasted]

"Bantering and teasing" is not telling them they look like shit.  That is just being a cunt.

[Adam]

obviously MOST women are just gon a want to be friends at most. you're not gonna get evey womam you meet to wanna sleep with you.

do you really wanan get laid that badly? that is a genuine question btw. personally i think you would be better off trying to just go for the quiet geeky look. i don't mean geeky in a really sad way, but don't try and be something you're not. aspie guys trying to be ubercool alphamale ladies' men are just gonna look like idiots.

don't go for the overly nice "look what a good listener i am, look how kind i am" kinda shit, because yes, that WILL just get you friendship/brother status. but trying to be like an NT guy with girls is just not gonna work when you're aspie IMO

sure this won't get you laid every night, but you've got more chance of meeting a girl you could actually have a relationship with