Annnnnnd, i"m back 4 mins early. Huge load of bullshit (B knows me well, I stopped right after the backhanded compliment stage). and let's be honest here Tom. You do believe what you were suggesting because it's exactly the way you behaved with LB. You were verbally abusive to her and she did play into it because she was desperate for any kind of attention, be it positive or negative.
If you give out bullshit, you get bullshit back. If you want quality, then what you put out there is respect. If Aspie men followed that advice then they have just successfully dumbed down the male race and and done Aspie men a huge injustice overall. A few emotional/verbal/physical abusive asses gives the rest of the good guys a bad rep.
phobia.