yeah, i'm either completely stupid or i'm a liar? 
Or you have a memory to things that can not be relied on and that you can not remember yourself what is or isn't spam. (which I believe was the third option.)
The upshot is that when you spam or post negative concerns we do not know whether it is a legitimate expression of pain to respond to or just spam. You too can't remember yet get testy when I, in thinking everything was real issues, asked nicely (for me) whether you could cut it back. You delegated it mostly to spam and then sought to try and take me to task for such a baseless assumption. You then contradict the one thing that you said definitely was just spam.
I am a reasonably fair and even-handed fella. (I know you will struggle to see this but bear with me).
Look at how I respond to "real" issues on the board. Boyfriend troubles, Migraines, illnesses. I don't expect people to be all ray of sunshine and happy faces. So it is not that I want to stick it to people for not being happy or even not having the balls to call them on it.
It is a respect thing. I expect that there are times when I will do the same and it is exceptions to the rule.
When I see a LOT of posts from you and a decent percentage of them being misery posts I WILL and did call you on it and ask not to never post negatively nor to even have the occasional gripe or bad moment. Look at my original post for clarification what I actually said.
Of course your actions since have lacked any appreciation of this and as much as you say I have not understood you, you constantly contradict yourself, and you seem to think you can treat me with no respect but that I should treat you and Bint with kid gloves. No dice.
I do take things literally and if you say I am miserable about my Lecturer amoung the litany of other "complaints" large and small I will believe it for how it is written. What amoung that litany is actual complaint and what spam? I don't know and whilst you give a percentage you simply don't remember or know what is. It just comes across as an unhappy person constantly whining in the majority of posts and bringing a lot of negativity to the board.
You can argue my thinking this or that some undesignated posts in the litany is spam but it is hard to quantify and qualify when even you have no fucking idea is it?
So I nicely point it out and you and Bints and Milla carry on about it and try to impress on me and everyone else that I don't get it and yet in this call out you contradict the absolute statements you make and come out not really - in any way - casting doubt on pretty much anything I said and if anything make my point.
That said I am a pretty reasonable bloke and if you decide that you want to treat me with a bit more respect and what not, you may be surprised that you suddenly get better treated by me. I don't give a rat's either way but you know it is funny how these things work. Also if I do happen to ask something it may actually have some merit and basis and may not be a means to piss you off or upset you. Something to think about there Soph.
