Peegai, why do you insist on biting the hand that feeds you? I am trying to help you reach your NT potential. I realise my bullying may seem harsh but it is to help you improve yourself - "tough love" if you will. I knew you would resent me for it but I prepared myself for that, because I know that deep down you realise it is for your own good. Now you can either appreciate the lesson and learn from it , or run back to the hospice and cry into your roses. I don't know why everyone is so ungrateful about recieving my enlightenment.