Ask CG anything

[Celticgoddess]

TBH, you have to work for it. It doesn't stop on its own. You have to learn new coping and communication skills, ways to fight fair when you argue, she can't pull the emotional blackmail bullshit and you can't be a bully with the fucked up language you use to put her down when you feel backed into a corner. And it's not good for the girls to be around either. If you guys were going to get serious, counselling is the only way to go. Even if you do it individually. It's better than nothing.

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I don't see why toxic couples stay together in the first place.  If it's not working and other people are probably getting affected by it (her kids) then surely the logical thing to do is split up?  Although I guess feelings do defy logic sometimes 

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when she breaks up with me she doesnt leave me alone.  she calls me begging to talk and wanting me back. 

If she does that then you should ignore it.

[Celticgoddess]

And you swoop back in to save her. It's a constant cycle of drama. And you play your part in it too. You've said some really shitty things to her that no woman should ever have to hear. And she is a good emotional manipulator. That's the thing with toxic relationships. You each have a role that you play in it. When she breaks up with you, and desn't leave you alone, you enable her by responding. And 'round and 'round we go right?

If you have the opportunity to experience a healthy relationship, you'll wonder why the fuck you stuck it out so long in the one you're on now. Love doesn't = healthy relationship.

eta: Just saw your comment about not bullying anymore. Good for you.

[Adam]

have u ever done The Sex?

[Celticgoddess]

what is emotional blackmail anyway?

She knows that there are things she can say or do to play on your emotions and get you to come running. It's used like a tool to get what she wants. I bet she knows that she does this too. I think i talked to her about it before but I can't remember.

[Celticgoddess]

have u ever done The Sex?

No. My real name is Mary and both of my kids are the product of an immaculate conception.

[RageBeoulve]

have u ever done The Sex?

No. My real name is Mary and both of my kids are the product of an immaculate conception.

What shes saying here, is that god came moseying along and saw her sleeping naked, so he shoved the tip in and nutted. Later she had a kid who had the cheatcodes to life.

[Celticgoddess]

have u ever done The Sex?

No. My real name is Mary and both of my kids are the product of an immaculate conception.

What shes saying here, is that god came moseying along and saw her sleeping naked, so he shoved the tip in and nutted. Later she had a kid who had the cheatcodes to life.

  That was slightly creepy, yet pretty fucking funny.

[RageBeoulve]

have u ever done The Sex?

No. My real name is Mary and both of my kids are the product of an immaculate conception.

What shes saying here, is that god came moseying along and saw her sleeping naked, so he shoved the tip in and nutted. Later she had a kid who had the cheatcodes to life.

  That was slightly creepy, yet pretty fucking funny.

Well what happened after that is that the kid grew to be a man, and the jews didn't like him cause he was a leet haxxor and they weren't. So they no scoped his ass. But then he just turned on godmode and reappeared on the server. God loled.

[Celticgoddess]

:lol:

[El]

have u ever done The Sex?

No. My real name is Mary and both of my kids are the product of an immaculate conception.

What shes saying here, is that god came moseying along and saw her sleeping naked, so he shoved the tip in and nutted. Later she had a kid who had the cheatcodes to life.

Y'mean, up, down, left, right, bow in front of the altar and go into the pew?

[Celticgoddess]

have u ever done The Sex?

No. My real name is Mary and both of my kids are the product of an immaculate conception.

What shes saying here, is that god came moseying along and saw her sleeping naked, so he shoved the tip in and nutted. Later she had a kid who had the cheatcodes to life.

Y'mean, up, down, left, right, bow in front of the altar and go into the pew?

That totally took me a minute and then when I visualized it, I  busted out laughing.

My "Ask CG Anything" definitely went on its own little tangent, becoming "Dear Abby's free therapy sessions"

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To get back on topic, do you think you'll ever have more kids CG?  Or are the ones you have now enough? 

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Also, remember tonight is alcohol night