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Re: Facebook
« Reply #15 on: October 11, 2009, 07:52:20 AM »
It's not about paranoia, it's about choosing what you want to reveal about yourself, stalkers or no stalkers. Not everyone's like you, Hadron.
I hide enough about myself already - I cannot afford to hide more. Lets just say I have made the mistake of having an obsession I cannot talk about.

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Re: Facebook
« Reply #16 on: October 11, 2009, 07:54:40 AM »
It's not about paranoia, it's about choosing what you want to reveal about yourself, stalkers or no stalkers. Not everyone's like you, Hadron.
I hide enough about myself already - I cannot afford to hide more. Lets just say I have made the mistake of having an obsession I cannot talk about.

Which is fine and well, and your choice. Just don't assume you know why others choose to be more private than you.
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Re: Facebook
« Reply #17 on: October 12, 2009, 12:09:35 AM »
It's not about paranoia, it's about choosing what you want to reveal about yourself, stalkers or no stalkers. Not everyone's like you, Hadron.
I hide enough about myself already - I cannot afford to hide more. Lets just say I have made the mistake of having an obsession I cannot talk about.
Argh you are one of those people that tells a little bit of the story and no more.

I haven't got a Facebook account. My real name isn't anywhere on the internet. I guess that is one of the reasons why I am ok about posting about myself here.
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Re: Facebook
« Reply #18 on: October 12, 2009, 06:29:37 AM »
It's not about paranoia, it's about choosing what you want to reveal about yourself, stalkers or no stalkers. Not everyone's like you, Hadron.
I hide enough about myself already - I cannot afford to hide more. Lets just say I have made the mistake of having an obsession I cannot talk about.
Argh you are one of those people that tells a little bit of the story and no more.

I haven't got a Facebook account. My real name isn't anywhere on the internet. I guess that is one of the reasons why I am ok about posting about myself here.

I've started posting more about myself in relation to my name. Given the field of work I'm going into, my name will end up on the net in relation to my work. I just need to make sure that the personal details I don't want associated with my name stays separate from it.
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Re: Facebook
« Reply #19 on: October 12, 2009, 07:14:56 AM »
I find Facebook confusing and overwhelming; there are too many things trying to catch my attention when I go there, so I avoid it simply from a user-interface point of view.
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Re: Facebook
« Reply #20 on: October 12, 2009, 09:34:35 AM »
i have facebook. my real name is known on the internet

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Re: Facebook
« Reply #21 on: October 12, 2009, 09:36:08 AM »
My real name, address and phone number is known at various places....

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Re: Facebook
« Reply #22 on: October 12, 2009, 09:38:57 AM »
I don't have it set to high security, but then thankfully I also have an extremely common name, like Jane Smith. So if anyone's wanting to find me specifically, they'll have to hunt through all the other same names as mine.  8)

I'm not particularly active either. I use it more to keep up with a small handful of friends. And I only have people on my friends list who I know (either good online friends or people irl).

Main thing is never post on FB something you wouldn't want your employer (current or future) to know about you.
I have the common name thing in my favor and uber-security.  In general I try to keep my facebook pretty much OK for employers to see, though every now and again I go through and panic and purge.  I'm pretty active on FB.
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Re: Facebook
« Reply #23 on: October 12, 2009, 09:40:15 AM »
I don't have it set to high security, but then thankfully I also have an extremely common name, like Jane Smith. So if anyone's wanting to find me specifically, they'll have to hunt through all the other same names as mine.  8)

I'm not particularly active either. I use it more to keep up with a small handful of friends. And I only have people on my friends list who I know (either good online friends or people irl).

Main thing is never post on FB something you wouldn't want your employer (current or future) to know about you.
I have the common name thing in my favor and uber-security.  In general I try to keep my facebook pretty much OK for employers to see, though every now and again I go through and panic and purge.  I'm pretty active on FB.
So you haven't left any hints on I2 or anywhere else - I guess that is the main risk of trouble from it...

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Re: Facebook
« Reply #24 on: October 12, 2009, 09:41:33 AM »


My last name is pretty uncommon, that's why I have my profile set to private.


I figure, if you google someone's name, something is going to come up. I'd rather have the say as far as what comes up on the first page.

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Re: Facebook
« Reply #25 on: October 12, 2009, 09:42:00 AM »
some people here know my address
my phone number is 07709058029

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Re: Facebook
« Reply #26 on: October 12, 2009, 09:42:56 AM »


i'm totally going to drunk dial you

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Re: Facebook
« Reply #27 on: October 12, 2009, 09:43:15 AM »
some people here know my address
my phone number is 07709058029
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Re: Facebook
« Reply #28 on: October 12, 2009, 09:44:38 AM »
 :P

people from outside the uk never seem to be able to get hold of me

i think cg tried texting me once on that number and it never worked

starbuline also did too and it never got through, yet i could call her house phone from my same mobile and it worked


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Re: Facebook
« Reply #29 on: October 12, 2009, 09:45:41 AM »
did they use the intl extension?