Soy was Bint

[The_Chosen_One]

Jesus Hadron, grow up and pull your head out of your arse. You can be a real fuckstick when it comes to talking nonsense sometimes.

And Lit, how about actually giving up an opinion of your own?

[earthboundmisfit]

With Soleiyu, nothing would change his mind on some things so what was the point in arguing with him on it?

It wasn't about trying to change his mind. It was about him not acknowledging or respecting anyone else's views on anything.

[earthboundmisfit]

If I had kids and anyone tried to do anything like that to them, they'd be thankful if the cops caught them before I did, but he didn't mean any of it!

Then why fucking say it? Do you think it makes someone smart or clever when they say things just to instigate? My nephew can do that, and he's four.

[Phlexor]

Jesus Hadron, grow up and pull your head out of your arse. You can be a real fuckstick when it comes to talking nonsense sometimes.

And Lit, how about actually giving up an opinion of your own?

 

[TheoK]

Then why fucking say it? Do you think it makes someone smart or clever when they say things just to instigate? My nephew can do that, and he's four.

I don't see why people get upset when it's so obvious that he doesn't mean it. That's even more immature than his provocations.

[Phlexor]

Then why fucking say it? Do you think it makes someone smart or clever when they say things just to instigate? My nephew can do that, and he's four.

I don't see why people get upset when it's so obvious that he doesn't mean it. That's even more immature than his provocations.

People aren't upset because they think he meant it, they are upset that he even said it at all.

Grow a brain.

 

[TheoK]

If someone gets upset over something that they know isn't meant for real, then it's even more immature.

Being upset over mere words instead of actual deeds is an NT behaviour btw.

[The_Chosen_One]

And the next person who mentions this 'that's NT behaviour' shite is serious gonna get a cyber-reaming. Sheesh, insecure much.

You are totally missing the point, Lit; and have been through the whole exchange. Soy says one bucket of shit about something, we call him on what he says, and you piss and moan that he is being picked on for not understanding what he was saying. What we understood was that he shouldn't have said that shit in the first place. If he'd carried on a normaL conversation without antagonizing people we'd be on some sort of level ground. But he went on the attack from the moment he came here. Calling all Americans, Brits, Jews Aussies etc subhuman trash, and picking on sand-niggers etc isn't going to endear you to the greater community. All people are going to do then is tell you to fuck off, and it doesn't matter that you've got anything decent to say after that. And a half-heated apology and promise to do better was just that - he tried to manipulate us into thinking he was OK, then he started in with the same shit. Telling us he didn't mean it is bullshit, Lit, because nobody makes a joke out of something for that long unless they are seriously fucked.

We've accepted you as part of the 'family', but don't try to fuck things up by sticking up for someone who doesn't deserve it.

[GalileoAce]

Autism is not an excuse for bad behaviour.

[renaeden]

We've accepted you as part of the 'family',

Who are "we"?

[Phlexor]

If someone gets upset over something that they know isn't meant for real, then it's even more immature.

Being upset over mere words instead of actual deeds is an NT behaviour btw.

Maybe you should just shut up until you know what you are talking about.

[The_Chosen_One]

ren: I2, of course. 

[odeon]

If someone gets upset over something that they know isn't meant for real, then it's even more immature.

Being upset over mere words instead of actual deeds is an NT behaviour btw.

Who gives a fuck what kind of behaviour you label it as? It's a natural reaction, regardless of dx, especially when your kids are involved. And considering the past here, enough things have been said, stuff that shouldn't ever have to be for real, that turned out to be all too real.

Or to put it just a tad differently: why should we care if the guy's immature? Why should we give him break after break when he's barely housebroken and can spew out practically anything. I don't suffer fools gladly and sometimes I'm here to make sure that they know it.

[GalileoAce]

Being upset over mere words instead of actual deeds is an NT behaviour btw.

Communication between humans is mostly words. At least complex, in depth communication, and especially so on the internet. Words are not meaningless. You need to be careful what and how you say something lest it be misinterpreted.

Also, on the internet actual deeds are words. There is little that you can do on the internet that is not words. So Solyeu's act, his deed, was the write something deeply offensive. This was the actual deed everyone got up in arms about. Not his intent. Not his meaning. But the act of post something deeply offensive. It doesn't matter that he didn't mean it, or he only intended to provoke some sort of other response. Words have meaning the one's he chose to post have an offensive meaning, even to someone such as myself; I don't count Callaway as a friend, but I like her, and I wouldn't know her daughter from anyone else, but Solyeu's post was offensive even to me.

This was his act. He chose, with full faculties, to make this post, knowing full well what it meant. You and he should not be surprised as to everyone's reaction.

[benjimanbreeg]

We've accepted you as part of the 'family',

Who are "we"?

I know, makes me cringe