I don't understand what the big deal is, its a word. There isn't a point to stressing over a word. I found other things to waste my stress, more important things.
You may forget that words have meanings, even yours.
Some words have private meanings, some words are acceptable anywhere.
It becomes important to know which ones are not appropriate in certain circumstances, once we venture out into the public.
I was once standing in-line at a buffet lunch when the (might have been aspie) hot-assed girl I was with began talking, rather loudly, about me coming down her throat and how much she enjoyed it and how she wished she had more of my come and whioch foods I should should eat to make more come. She began talking about the protein she was taking from me and how she wished I could just "pump her full of my protein."
Several people lost their will to stand in line near us and left. She was not aware even that her voice had echoed off the far wall, distracted many patrons from their meal, much less that the topic was a private one. I treid to get her to lower her voice, and smiled at all those who were shooting me with faces of disgust.
She was not aware of her surroundings. Other people do not want to hear this kind of stuff while standing in line to eat..
(Oh yes, I fucked her a BUNCH more times, but she never had any regard for her surroundings or how inappropriate her words may have been to the circumstance.)