Why is it that on one hand, members are constantly reminded of the fact that this place is supposed to be "intense" and no kid gloves should be used (and the no pranks list should consequently not exist, etc), but on the other hand, hints about Lit and Scrap being "driven off" abound?
Have I ONCE suggested that anything be done about it?
Unlike the decision to make a no-pranks list, I have
only been pointing out certain people's methods
of hounding people away - primarily in order to
warn those here whom I like, and don't want
to see leave. To prepare them, and to understand
what is happening to me, as well as why.
Lit's story differs a lot from what is usually hinted here and is, in some ways, far more tragic.
He was also TERRIBLY hounded here, at that time. I'm not
sure how much effect it had, but it couldn't have helped.
Though, to be fair, he was only being attacked personally -
not over personal issues, in the context of the site ones.
Which I feel is fair game, actually.
Oh, and not everything Cal says is written off as bullshit, but he makes it very hard for even a devoted reader to wade through the mind games to a seriously meant point. I don't think I'm the first to observe this. He himself has acknowledged this in the past. Unfortunately, by his own admission, he enjoys the games.
You add the 'mind' to the game. Making it seem far worse than
what I've honestly tried to explain. LIFE itself is a game to me.
So, it's not really reasonable to use this the way that you do.
You're simply using a negative term for "that which I find important".