So far, so GOOD!!
Thanks for all the well wishes.
She was in a dance choir concert last night. She was A "terrible hellion" as she was getting ready to go. She lost socks, she misplaced her shirt ... etc.
Once she was on stage, she was smiling from ear to ear and goofing with her friends on stage. She was finally happy.
Found out later that night that she had spent the hour before the concert with her "friends" Screaming, laughing, singing, body slamming each other, climbing all over each other, Jumping off the back stage dock, and I am sure other things she was not yet ready to share with me ...
... in the end, her needs were met in ways that I can no longer do for her. She has found a (strange) social life with which she she identifies!