In don't know where you went to law school, but where I went to law school, correcting stereotypes, misconceptions, and misunderstandings of a persons autism condition and the barriers/obstacles to it that are imposed was not called "arrogance;" it was called Civil Rights.
Except that you're
not merely correcting people; you're attacking them, either sarcastically sniping at them or throwing out paranoid accusations. At any rate, you can't fault people here for trying to help you, misguided as you believe it is. Even if you feel no one here can truly comprehend your situation, which may be true, I think it's legitimate for people to ask you questions about the situation, in an attempt to offer you more useful advice. But you react viciously to even those simple, innocuous questions, accusing the people asking of being ignorant (at best) or malicious. No one is trivializing your plight; the negative reaction you've received has been to this behavior.
As several people, especially Callaway and Renaeden, have demonstrated, some here are (were?) willing to try to help you with your doctor, but you're not explaining how they should go about it, nor do you seem willing to concede the possibility that you
won't be able to have him reinstated, whether or not there was any sexual history between you.
Anyway, as others in this thread have said, it's difficult to understand why you're continuing to post on here. You solicit help, reject people's efforts at such, and then claim help is impossible in the first place, except from your doctor. If you just want to vent about the situation, that's a different story, but you are frankly sending a lot of mixed messages.
You could just settle for getting airtight with a standard issue Hermaphrodite, your Doctor and your husband.
That suggestion would be probably appeal far more to my husband, than my Doctor or I. But, don't let me speak for my Doctor, since I thought he was going to kiss me !!! And it was a great disappointment that while his lips were quivering as he was trying to restrain his own obsessions for me, he didn't !!! His abilities with psychiatry induced a VERY strong transference on me -- and I liked it !!!
The new single from Katy Perry: I Experienced Obsessive Romantic Transference With My Lips-Quivering, Deadbeat Psychiatrist (and I Liked it)!