So much goodness and gentleman like behaviour.
Making me even more shy.
And wondering if I'm worthy to be in this caring place.
After you get spanked a few times, the shyness wears off and "helpful" rage will surface, and you'll learn to be more assertive. But its not a design feature of this site, just seems to be the way it works. Plus, you don't want to be everyone's wet towel, we want to see your own personality shine through.