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Offline jman

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Some things just aren't meant to be....
« on: July 29, 2006, 06:21:11 PM »
Let me start off by saying I usually don;t like to make posts regarding my personal life but I thought this might be worth a thread...

As of a couple weeks ago baby and I are no longer an item. I talked to her tonight and found she was seeing someone new. Was I hurt? Of couse :( Did I get angry, try guilt her back, or threaten the new boyfriend? Of course not!

The moral of the story is this: If you really love someone and its not meant to be you have to let them be free.

The distance was killing me (and her) so I think it;s best that we parted. I sincerely wish her the best with her new love, she told me things are going well, thisis bittersweet because the sweetest girl I;ve ever met is seeing someone else but yet I am so happy for her! :)

She really is the sweetest girl I have ever met, and ever moment I spent with her will be kept in my little treasure box of cherished memories.

So guys be nice to baby when you see her, she truly is a remarkable person. Pay no attention to her NT status for shes above the average NT woman.

She will always be in my heart no matter where I go or what I do..

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Re: Some things just aren't meant to be....
« Reply #1 on: July 30, 2006, 05:06:30 AM »
Ah well - long distance relationships don't usually work out matey - at least you're being an adult about it. I still find it staggering that she was prepared to travel five thousand miles to see you as it is - and you got laid... a girlfriend in the same time zone might be better next time round.  ;)

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Re: Some things just aren't meant to be....
« Reply #2 on: July 30, 2006, 09:23:44 AM »
Well, that sucks.

Fuck it, man -- plenty of pussy in the sea.

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Re: Some things just aren't meant to be....
« Reply #3 on: July 30, 2006, 09:25:47 AM »
Well, that sucks.

Fuck it, man -- plenty of pussy in the sea.

Hmmm -- that sounds fishy

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Re: Some things just aren't meant to be....
« Reply #4 on: July 30, 2006, 09:36:07 AM »
Well, that sucks.

Fuck it, man -- plenty of pussy in the sea.

Hmmm -- that sounds fishy

Yes, and for men, it's an acquired taste.

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Re: Some things just aren't meant to be....
« Reply #5 on: July 30, 2006, 09:43:47 AM »
Well, that sucks.

Fuck it, man -- plenty of pussy in the sea.

Hmmm -- that sounds fishy

Yes, and for men, it's an acquired taste.

A Choir it, and it can be a harmonious experience...in the end...  :P

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Re: Some things just aren't meant to be....
« Reply #6 on: July 30, 2006, 09:59:46 AM »
Ok i guess i should post in this thread, i'm glad that J-man has put this up because i didn't want to mention it incase feelings got hurt.
Yes its true we're not together anymore, but i can say that He will always be a close friend for me and I can say that i don;t regret any of my time i spent with him!
I would still consider going back out there to see him again as i had a wonderful time when i saw him.
But as he said I have found someone else who is considerable closer to be distance wise, i didn't set out to find another man it just happened.
As i said i didn;t set out to hurt anyone

baby

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Re: Some things just aren't meant to be....
« Reply #7 on: July 30, 2006, 10:05:08 AM »
Ok i guess i should post in this thread, i'm glad that J-man has put this up because i didn't want to mention it incase feelings got hurt.
Yes its true we're not together anymore, but i can say that He will always be a close friend for me and I can say that i don;t regret any of my time i spent with him!
I would still consider going back out there to see him again as i had a wonderful time when i saw him.
But as he said I have found someone else who is considerable closer to be distance wise, i didn't set out to find another man it just happened.
As i said i didn;t set out to hurt anyone

baby

Omg, Baby is one mean bitch! :(

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Re: Some things just aren't meant to be....
« Reply #8 on: July 30, 2006, 10:07:03 AM »
why am i mean?

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Re: Some things just aren't meant to be....
« Reply #9 on: July 30, 2006, 10:33:35 AM »
why am i mean?


I don't know, I just felt like saying it.

Ho hum. What a bore.

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Re: Some things just aren't meant to be....
« Reply #10 on: July 30, 2006, 10:38:36 AM »
well at least yopu got some poontang, jman.
hi fives.
Misunderstood.

peegai

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Re: Some things just aren't meant to be....
« Reply #11 on: July 31, 2006, 10:58:05 AM »
Oh jman, poor jman...

The ex-lass of his has cheated on him with someone else... :(

(I wouldn't be surprised if she comes crawling back to you crying after the guy dumps her. XD)

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Re: Some things just aren't meant to be....
« Reply #12 on: July 31, 2006, 12:01:08 PM »
Oh jman, poor jman...

The ex-lass of his has cheated on him with someone else... :(

(I wouldn't be surprised if she comes crawling back to you crying after the guy dumps her. XD)

I DID NOT CHEAT!!!  i only started seeing my new guy after we had called it a day

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Re: Some things just aren't meant to be....
« Reply #13 on: July 31, 2006, 12:08:51 PM »
Oh jman, poor jman...

The ex-lass of his has cheated on him with someone else... :(

(I wouldn't be surprised if she comes crawling back to you crying after the guy dumps her. XD)

I DID NOT CHEAT!!!  i only started seeing my new guy after we had called it a day

Yay! Here comes the drama! :D

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Re: Some things just aren't meant to be....
« Reply #14 on: July 31, 2006, 12:27:20 PM »

I DID NOT CHEAT!!!  i only started seeing my new guy after we had called it a day

A "day"???? That's a nice euphemism for adultery is it not? What would you call sleeping with seven men behind jman's back? A week? So let me get this straight, jman had finished you for the day after much rampant sex and you found another man that same very night? You're unsatiable, at the end of the day.