It has happened again. My mother treated me like a child.
We were watching Goldeneye and my dad was clueless about the movie even though he has seen it before. He was asking questions about it like which one is the bad girl and when does she die. I tell him about Xenia. I tell him she loves killing people and she is a sadist. She loves torturing them and she has an orgasm because she yells "yes yes" and my mother asks me am I so obsessed with sex or just curious about it. I ask her "Grown ups don't talk like this?" She tells me it was socially inappropriate. So I was given a lecture about how innaproppriate it is to talk about sex like that and it's vulgar, socially inappropriate, and if there were other people in the room, she would be very embarrassed for me. Sure she told me two years ago it's innaproppriate to make jokes about sex but this time I didn't. I talked about it explaining to my father about Xenia.
I am 23 and my mother still corrects me about my behavior. This is something you do to a child. I pointed it out to my mother and she said "You were being a child" and told me I sometimes say very vulgar things.
And last night, she is talking on the phone as I am watching Home Alone video game walk through on youtube and she is talking to my brother who is now 18 and out of her house. She is still telling him to come home at a certain time and he is here for the Thanksgiving week and leaves tomorrow (Sunday). I thought my brothers were leaving Saturday but no I found out they were leaving the next day. He doesn't live with here anymore because he lives an hour away now because he is in college and my mother is still giving him curfews when he is here.
